Remembering Yogakumar

Our beloved friend Yogakumaran Muthukumarasuwamy (Muthar) from 1993 batch, Jaffna Hindu College, has passed away on Dec 14, 2003 in UK.

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We are all shocked and saddened by this tragic event and we would like to send our prayers and condolences to his grief stricken family.

Please leave your thoughts in this guest book.  I will print it out in a couple of weeks and forward it to his family.  This way we won't burden them at this time of trial.

Thanks all
./Sujee
(Dec 15, 2003)

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Update : Jan 10, 2004 : Thanks for all your comments below. - Sujee
    24th December 2003 - 06:43:30 AM    
46 : Dushyandan K
My heart felt condolences to Yogakumar's family and loved one.
May your soul rest in peace.
Dushy
Melbourne, Australia


    24th December 2003 - 06:11:02 AM    
45 : Jeyakumar
Ohh Muthar, I dont know how ur parents feel at present its very hard to bear the loss of my great friend & co teacher (taught me CIMA/ACCA).
My deeepest sympathy to his parents & other family members. I was at there for the last respects in London & in Colombo It was nice to see the amount of people who turned up, from that I realised that he is not only to me he is a very good friend of everyone.
Om shanthi Shanthi.

Jeyakumar (Milo)


    24th December 2003 - 05:32:34 AM    
44 : T Loganthan
I am very sorry to hear this shock news and I wish to send my condolence to my former teacher and to the family. I do not know much about him untill I started to hear through this message board; but I can immagine the charactor based on our 'Muthukumarasamy master'.
Harrow, UK


    22nd December 2003 - 07:53:06 AM    
43 : N Mayouran
I was devasted & deeply shocked to hear this sad news about the loss of our beloved friend Muthar. I have only became closed to him in the last 4-5 years but he has left a long lasting memory in my life and specially his ever smiling face.

Let us pray for his soul to be rested in peace with god and our deepest condolences to his family.


    20th December 2003 - 09:26:21 AM    
42 : Varun Balendra
Better known as "Muthar" among his friends. I cannot forget the days we spent at CIMA and tution classes in A/L.

I wish to express my deepest condolences to his family.

Varun
Toronto, Canada


    20th December 2003 - 02:35:31 AM    
41 : K. Kirishankar
we both studied together at Colombo Hindu college and then we studied CIMA also in the same period then we started our carrier at KPMG ford Rhodes audit firm on the same day.
He was a good friend and my advisor. I cannot forget his smiles and the days we spent at CIMA library.I don't have any word to express my feelings.
my deepest condolance to his family
K.Kirishankar
Colombo


    19th December 2003 - 06:15:00 PM    
40 : Engunan Logesvaran
I pay my last respect to a respectful friend of mine and deepest sympathy to his family members.

It was a nice time to have friendship with a nice person at JHC. A smiling face and soft conversations with every one is his uniqe character.

we friends lost a wonderful and nice gentleman. God wants him to be in heaven than we want him to be on earth.

"may god bless his rest of life with peace and happy in heaven!"

my deepest condolence and sympathy to his family.

Gunan Loges
NSW, Australia.


    19th December 2003 - 12:03:02 PM    
39 : shanmugathasan
I am very sock to hear this news. I can't forget the days that I spent with you when we study for CIMA.My heartiest condolence to yogakumar's family.
" May his Soul rest in Peace"
Shan.
University of Surrey.


    19th December 2003 - 09:37:08 AM    
38 : Pushpaharan
My heartiest condolence to yogakumar's family. I cannot forget the days we spent with you when we study for CIMA. Un “Athma” Santhi Adya Pirarthikiren


    19th December 2003 - 01:29:24 AM    
37 : Bala Elamaran
It is a real shock for me to hear this sad news. Yogakumar was the friendliest, calmest and bubbly personality in our class. My deep condolence to his family.

Elamaran


    19th December 2003 - 01:28:29 AM    
36 : Jeyatheepan
Yogakumar was our team leader in St.Johns Ambulance in JHC and a nice gentleman.Its a real shock for us. My deep condolence to his family. May his soul rest in peace.

Jeyatheepan
Sri Lanka Telecom
www.Jeyatheepan.com
Jeya@GlobalITLabs.com


    19th December 2003 - 01:27:27 AM    
35 : Logan Varatharasa
Very sad to hear this tragedy. My prayers to his soul and condolence to his family.
Logan Varatharasa, Austin, TX. USA


    19th December 2003 - 01:26:38 AM    
34 : Sathees
Heartfelt condolences to Yogakumar's family. This tragic accident news will hurt anyone's mind. I am sorry about his death. I don't know him individually, but I could feel how hard it would be for his parents, brothers, systers and close friends and relatives. My Sympathies to all.


    19th December 2003 - 01:26:06 AM    
33 : Sathees
I am not his school. Not his friend. But I am a human being. This tragic event will hurt all of the human. Heartfelt sympathies.

Sathees


    19th December 2003 - 01:25:14 AM    
32 : Suntharesan
I got to know Yogakumar at JHC, as a member of Hindu union and we studied together CIMA in Colombo. He is the first person who came foward to help others in any events regardless of his busy schedules.
The proper function of a man is to live, not to exist but Muthar went beyond and not lived for himself but for others.
My deep condolance to his family.

V.Suntharesan
Financial Analyst, Ceylinco International
Sri Lanka
sunthar75@hotmail.com


    18th December 2003 - 09:13:26 PM    
31 : Gnanam
I am very sock to here this news, He was very nice and cool batch mate. He devoted himself for all religious activity , even the last moment he was served himself for that .
My deep condolences to his family.

" May his Soul rest in Peace"

S.Gnanananthan
IT Manager
Sri Lanka


    18th December 2003 - 09:13:19 PM    
30 : P.Sivalingam
I'm sending this message again as I understand my previous one is lost.I'm a pastpupil of Muththucumaraswamy master.As I read all the other messages, I regret that I did not have an opportunity to meet this wonderful young Yogakumaran.I pray the almighty for his soul to rest in peace and master&family to have strength& courage to face this loss. From Dr.P.Sivalingam,Edmonton,Canada 1975A/LBatch.


    18th December 2003 - 06:56:28 PM    
29 : Bala Muhunthan
Dear Mr & Mrs Muthukumarasamy,

Please accept our deepest sympathies and heartfelt condolences on behalf of JHC OBA of Australia and the members of the association.

We are shocked and grieved of the tragic incident and pray God to give you sufficient strength to face life without Yogakumaran.

I remember Yogan as a small boy coming with you to school in your Black A50 Sir.

Bala Muhunthan
President, JHC OBA of Australia.


    18th December 2003 - 04:58:02 PM    
28 : Elanthiraiyan Ramalingam
Its a tragic incident. We all in shock.
Its a great loss for all of us.
Yoga was one of the cool and nice mate during our stay at JHC hood.My heartfelt condolences for his parents,family members and friends.
May his soul rest in peace.

Elanthirai R
(JHC Batch-mate)


    18th December 2003 - 02:18:18 PM    
27 : Dr.A.Meenadchisundaram
Our friend Yogakumar(Muththar)rests in peace now.He was and will be the true son of Jaffna Hindu.He devoted himself for hinduism and also to the liberation struggle.

I'm still in the state of denial.I couldn't believe myself when I saw ragu's message! I don't have words to express my loss.

He was one of the rare persons who touched their friends minds with his pleasant smile,gentle speech&caring approach.

We miss him!! We miss him!

My heartfelt condolences for his parents,family members and friends.

Friend Meenadchi.


    18th December 2003 - 01:36:37 PM    
26 : Praba.T (Moddai)
Heart Breaking News of Muthar

When I got this heart breaking news, I was blind for a while. I couldn’t come out from that shocking news for sometime. Muthar such a friend he is.

Muthar tried to meet me before I leave from U.K ( 2 days before this sad incident ) I was at work that time & then he wanted to go to the temple for “Pillaiyar Kathai” at last we couldn’t meet. Muthar told me “We will meet next time” now I feel what a unlucky person I am. Muthar I don’t have any words to express my feelings now machaan.

Muthar, he is not only a good friend for us , He is a good devotee. He dedicated homself to serve to the religion, he didn’t stopped with that, He has taken so many steps to help the society. Such a great you are. Muthar " he can be replaced by himself only". Such a huge loss for all of us.

Muthar I am really praying for you, from my heart, Your soul may be in rest and peace.You will be in our hearts and memories forever.

Muthar you are such a good friend, who touched all of your friends' soul!

My Heartfelt Sympathy to his Parents, family members & friends.



    18th December 2003 - 12:43:32 PM    
25 : Anakan
I am shocked to hear Yogakumar's death. He is very famous among us as Muthar in CIMA classes.

I wish to express my deepest condolence to Yogakumar's family.

May his sole rest in peace.

Anakan
Ottawa,Canada


    18th December 2003 - 12:38:50 PM    
24 : K. Sri Saravanapavaan
Dear Mr & Mrs Muthukumarasamy.

I have been a student of Muthukumarasamy Master, I studied at JHC from 1959-1966. Please accept my deepest sympathy. May Yogar swamy's teaching give you strenth during this unbearable tragedy.' Eppavo mudintha kariam'

K Sri Saravanapavaan. Solicitor, London, UK
www.sarasolicitors.com. mail@sarasolicitors.com


    18th December 2003 - 08:58:24 AM    
23 : Suren
I am shocked and grieved to hear about Yogakumar's death.
May the soul of Yogakumar join God & His angels in Heaven & enjoy happiness with them forever.

My heart felt deep condolences to his family.

Suren
University of Sheffield


    18th December 2003 - 08:31:57 AM    
22 : Mahes Subramaniam
Yogakumar is friend of mine from JHC through the St. John Ambulance Brigade since 1991. It is a terrible news and a sad, sad, tragic event.
I wish to express my deepest condolence to his family.
May his soul rest in peace.

$Mahes,
Toronto, Canada.


    18th December 2003 - 06:00:41 AM    
21 : Sujee Sivasubramaniyam
I had the privilage of studying with him at JHC and serving in St. John's Ambulance brigade together.

Yogakumar was well liked personality and he will be missed by all. Just can't help to think...
*The young perish, the old linger*

My heart-felt condolences to his family.

/Sujee


    18th December 2003 - 05:51:23 AM    
20 : Ganesh Shanmugan
Please accept my deepest sympathies on the passing away of your beloved son. Ganesh Shanmugan- 1982 A/L Batch, Toronto, Canada


    18th December 2003 - 05:51:01 AM    
19 : Kumar Sukumaran
I wish to convey my heartfelt condolsnce to Muthukumaraswamy and his family.I have been a student of Muthukumarasamy Master. I Studied at Jaffna Hindu from 1971 - 1976.
Kumar sukumaran
Toronto,Canada


    18th December 2003 - 05:50:37 AM    
18 : R.Vaikunthan
It was hard to believe that I lost my very old friend in an unexpected event.We know each other from 1983;We studied together in St.John Bosco from Grade 3;Then continued in JHC.

Anyone who speaks with him one time canot forget his nice soft face and his soft words.Very good old friends are few.I lost one of them.
My deepest condolences to Parents,family members of Mr Yogakumar.
California,USA


    18th December 2003 - 05:50:14 AM    
17 : Praba Selva
Dear Mr & Mrs Muthukumaraswamy and Family:,

I wish to express my deepest condolence to you and your family.

Even though I knew Yoga from JHC, I got to know him well when we studied at BHC.
He was a wonderful friend to hang around with.
He was a determined hard working guy, who always sticks with his discipline and goals.

He was a senior guy at JHC but we lived around the same hood and we used to play cricket together at JHC ground. Then,we went to the same school and tution for our A/Ls in Colombo.
It's very sad to hear about this tragedy.

May HIS soul rest in peace.

Praba Selva
(Selvapraba)
Ontario,Canada


    18th December 2003 - 05:49:48 AM    
16 : Satheeshkumar Sriharan
Dear Mr & Mrs Muthukumaraswamy and Family,
I know Yogakumar from 1986 as we were in the same class till the time he left Jaffna.He was one of the best guys I met in my life.
It was a shock to hear this tragic incident.
Accept my deepest condolences.May his soul be in rest and peace.
Dr.S.Satheeshkumar [Batch mate]
Beijing, China


    18th December 2003 - 05:49:25 AM    
15 : Punithakumar Kumaradevan
Very sad to hear this tragedy. My prayers to his soul and heartfelt condolence to his family.

Punithan
McMaster, Hamilton, Canada.


    18th December 2003 - 05:49:04 AM    
14 : Shanmuganathan Gowrishankar
Heartfelt condolences to Mr. & Mrs. Muththukumaraswamy and Yogakumar's family.

I was in JHC from 1966 to 1970, and was a student of Mr. Muthukumaraswamy for a short period.

S. Gowrishankar, Edmonton, Canada.


    18th December 2003 - 05:48:37 AM    
13 : P Kuhathasan
" May his Soul rest in Peace"

" EN 8847" It was his father's veichle which carried him everyday from Kaithady to JHC through J/Hindu Ladies where his mother was a Teacher. Which vechile carried him to..!?

( Mr C Muthucumaraswamy was my classteacher in 1971)

May be he went their early to serve Yoga Swamigal's Siva Thondan Nilayam!



    18th December 2003 - 05:48:13 AM    
12 : subash-australia
I am still in a shock...can't it be all a bad dream??? ...
the last thing in the world to happen... to the NICEST AND SWEETEST guy i have come across...
muthar, u were so nice and humble and possessed ALL the qualities if anything more u would expect in a true friend..
why god has to be so cruel to u and to all of us who know you muthar.. please tell me..
how many times u have made the day for us with u r sweet smile and positive talk. Not a single day had passed in the 4 yrs that we were together in colombo (92-96)where u hadn't touched our hearts with something good, either with u r advice or with u r good deeds.
u had the soul of an angel, muthar..where did u get that BIG heart which always thought abut OTHERS..
It's still reverberating in my ears of u r very words after the news of my entry to medicine..
the happiness and jubliation u show everyy time in u r friends' success as if u have done it ,itself speaks of the greatness of u r heart and u r true friendship.
even the mere thought of u brings warmth and feeling of fondness..I have noticed that in many occasions..in the last few yrs, i didn't have the luxury of talking to u every day as we did in colombo's dusky nights. but whenever i get the opportunity to talk to u, even before i start dialling the numbers i can feel a strong wave of warmth and
a sense of excitment passing thro my body and mind..
that's how happy i was whenever i talked to u muthar..
it's amasing how a friend and his true friend ship can make u feel so good .
i am so fortunate to have a GREAT friend in u....MUTHAR.
u r so down to earth, humble and kindhearted. I can't think of any better person than u that have come across in my life.. i am sure lot o fu r friends will agree with me.
how dare god can snare u from us ?? god u r a demon..a devil ..
u have just made so many hearts cry and go empty with u r act.. why OUR muthar?? what did he do??
i guess god can't be without his loveliest angel next to him for more than 30yrs.. so he called OUR muthar back..
god,, i ha ve only one request..
in my nxt life too, i want muthar to be my best friend..but
with one condition.. it should be more than my lifetime...please..
Dr.subash srikantha
melbourne, Australia




    18th December 2003 - 05:47:44 AM    
11 : sumanthiran
My deepest sympathies to his family and friends
From Jaffna


    18th December 2003 - 05:47:18 AM    
10 : Ratneswaran
Heart rending shock to hear. condolences.

R.Ratneswaran. { Jaffna Hindu Old Boy.}
12.15.03.


    18th December 2003 - 05:46:44 AM    
9 : Sivathasan
It is really unbelievable very sad news. I know muthar from
our days at hindu. He was friendliest, calmest, and helpful friend in our class.My heart felt deep condolences to his family.


    18th December 2003 - 05:46:10 AM    
8 : Ratnasingam Tharmarasa
My deepest sympathies to his family and friends. May HIS soul rest in peace.

Ratnasingam Tharmarasa (JHC 94 Batch)
McMaster University, Hamilton
Ontario, Canada.


    18th December 2003 - 05:45:32 AM    
7 : Senthuran Sivabalan
I am also shocked and shattered by the tragic death of Yogakumaran who was fondly known to many fellow students as Muthar. My deepest sympathies to family and friends. May his soul rest in peace.

Senthuran Sivabalan ('94 Bio batch)
University of Tasmania
Hobart, Australia.


    18th December 2003 - 05:45:02 AM    
6 : sutharshan.m
The loss of yogakumar is indeed an irreparable loss to his family, friends, JHC Alumnae and to the tamil community at large.!!!!!!!!!!!

This is such a hard thing to say
but we lost a great social minded friend.
JHC friends all over the world are in a great shock.

OUR friend is gone forever now

A day (14th December) so sad for everyone here
You are gone and yet felt so near
Knowing that you will not be seen again
Leaves us so deeply saddened within.

we ask "God why?
Why did you take him from us?
Why did you let him die?
How could you be so selfish?"

I too join with all the people to pay my last respect to our friend, yogakumar.
My deepest condolences to his family and friends.
May his soul rest in peace.

Sutharshan.m
LLB,LLM (monash)
Research officer,
Sri Lanka.



    18th December 2003 - 05:44:28 AM    
5 : Janahan T ("Jana")
he only and the very best thing I still remember about our dearest friend Muthar, is his warmth, nice big smile..that's a unique one and only he is the proud owner.
Even though it's been so long since I met Muthar, I could still picture him back in JHC, talking and joking with me as if it were only yesterday.He is one of the most nicest, down to earth, friendliest and most helpful person I've ever came across. Mr & Mrs Muthukumarasamy and family: I studied with him up until 1990. Please accept my deepest condolences. Words cannot describe about our beloved friend. I have been going over this in my mind for so long and came up with the only answer I can think of. He has gone to his saviour and to be with him for eternity...GOD. He couldn't wait for Muthar and took him away from us. I am sure of one thing though, he will look after our Muthar and Muthar will as always smiling down on us as an angel in our lives.

We are missing you Muthar and will miss you forever.

from his "lost" friend
Jana


    18th December 2003 - 05:43:53 AM    
4 : gobi
When I heard this tragic news through Gajendra, I was deeply shocked and shattered. It was a very dramatic event and I have known Kumaran from school days, who used to be a keen supporter of our cricket team (88/89). I have even seen him joining us in the U.K for all the college related activities. What can I say? He was such a gentleman.....? My heartfelt condolence goes to his family and friends. I think we all as J.H.C students should take a moment and pray for him to rest in peace.


    18th December 2003 - 05:43:17 AM    
3 : Gurusamy Jeyaprakash
My heart felt condolence to Mr Muthukumaraswamy and family
Although I have not met Yogakumar in person I am sure he would have had the exemplary qualities of his father. I studied Science and Chemistry from Mr Muthukumaraswamy in 1969 & 1970

Gurusamy Jeyaprakash ( Sydney- Australia)


    18th December 2003 - 05:42:53 AM    
2 : T Gnanakumar
My deepest condolences to Muthukumaraswamy Sir and his family. Though I do not know Yogakumaran, I can imagine how nice and friendly he would have been, from his father's image I have. May God give enough strength and courage to Yogakumaran's family and associates to bear his loss. May his soul rest in peace.

T Gnanakumar/Colombo


    18th December 2003 - 05:42:27 AM    
1 : Vishakan Ponnampalam
We are still in shock and cannot accept what has happened. Yogakumar will be missed by everyone who has been fortunate to know him.


 

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